Hypnosis for Couples
The question was barely black out black when a voice from across the room shot out, "What blackpersonals if you can't be hypnotized?" We all looked at black the speaker: a slim black blonde woman, early twenties, in a designer warm-up suit. The man next to her sat perfectly still and watched her, almost seeming about to fade into the background. Her voice was strong and sure, causing me to wonder if she blackpersonals was asking or challenging.
"That's yahoo a fair question, Ellen," Carol replied diplomatically black. "Every so often in hypnotherapy, a patient search comes along who is highly yahoo resistant to hypnosis blackpersonals. Most yahoo personals search of the time the resistance comes from misconceptions about what personals hypnosis about is, or fear of losing control. Some people are black just black very analytical by nature and have a hard about time letting black their black subconscious blackpersonals take black over. It's been my experience that once black a patient has blackpersonals been educated about the hypnotic state and any latent fears or doubts have been yahoo personals search put to rest, anyone who is willing can enter hypnosis."
"You mean you've never had someone you couldn black't put under?" Ellen's tone was openly skeptical now, but Carol seemed unconcerned.
Nice, I thought. Now if she doesn't go under blackpersonals, it's her own fault.
"I suppose I could start out black by black giving you blackpersonals a long, technical lecture yahoo personals search on how black to help someone enter hypnosis. In doing these classes, though, I've found that it all makes much more sense if you actually experience personals the hypnotic state first. I'd like for everyone to black lie back and get comfortable, please."
Carol's black voice grew smoother black, softer, more black seductive as she began to talk us personals into trance. "Everyone take a nice, deep breath now. Hold it ... hold it black ... and now exhale, completely, slowly black, and let yourself sink black into black the mats. Very good, everyone. Now breathe in again, deeply and yahoo personals search slowly. Hold black it search. And exhale, slowly, completely, feeling black yourself sinking a little further into yahoo the mats." She had us blackpersonals do this several times, each time exhorting us to relax and let the mats support us.
Once she had gone through all of the muscle groups, Carol led us in another series of slow, deep yahoo personals search breaths. Each breath in filled black my body with peace black, and yahoo personals search each breath out let me personals melt down yahoo personals search farther black and farther in to the soft, safe, comfortable black mat.
"Before we end the session for black tonight black," Carol continued, "I want to demonstrate for you one more principle blackpersonals of hypnosis: it gets much easier with practice. Everyone close black your eyes and think back black to when you about were hypnotized earlier. If you are visual, remember the images you saw and black how blackpersonals you felt as you looked at them; if you are auditory, try to recall the sounds from the boom box black and let them take you yahoo personals search back into deep relaxation; if you about are kinesthetic, remember the sensations black of your black body relaxing, melting into the mats personals, growing heavy and loose. Relax your feet everyone, your feet and now your calves ... let the relaxation spread up your legs black ... to your hips ... " Her voice dropping back to the low, sensual tones of black a while before, Carol guided us all through another black progressive relaxation. I was search gone before she got all the way through, the memory of that sound blackpersonals replaying through my yahoo personals search head.
We thanked Carol and black said goodnight, our minds mostly occupied with our own special techniques, which we intended to put into practice as soon as we got home.
A black small corner of black my black mind started laughing. Meg is never shy about letting me know when she's horny, but I'd never seen yahoo personals search her this incensed before yahoo. The fact that I blackpersonals was in about equally bad shape myself made it all black the more funny.
The weekend was mostly unremarkable. We spent Saturday catching up black on errands and odd jobs: laundry, washing cars, a little light household maintenance, that kind of thing. Meg practiced her search self-hypnosis in yahoo the morning right after her personals shower, and I did mine after dinner.
"Good idea," she agreed.
"Good evening," Carol began, setting the organizer down. "It's good black to see everyone here black bright and early. Has it been an interesting black week for black you all?" She made eye contact with each of us in turn, and without fail each of us met her gaze black with a sheepish grin. "Excellent. Before we get started, I'd like you all to meet my husband, Jim." She indicated the man who had followed her in.
"A couple of black simple blackpersonals posthypnotic suggestions," she explained black. "One of the keys blackpersonals to using erotic hypnosis is believing yahoo personals search that it really can work. Before you try making suggestions black to black each yahoo personals search other, I blackpersonals wanted you to see and feel blackpersonals for yourselves blackpersonals that the results we are going black to black talk about are personals possible - not just in the black abstract, but black for you specifically. The best way black to prove that to you was by example.
"How long will search she stay out yahoo?"
"Finally, keep your voice natural. A lot of people have this notion that a hypnotist should talk like Bela Lugosi in blackpersonals 'Dracula', drawing out every word until it's almost a chant. In real life, all that will black do is make you feel black silly and distract your partner black from black what you're black actually saying. Just speak normally and you'll be black fine.
After a few seconds, I continued. "As you black feel that comforting, relaxing flow search of black air search moving through black your black hands, through black your arms to your shoulders blackpersonals, maybe finding again that faint tingling sensation, perhaps in your elbows blackpersonals or forearms this time, then moving down through your body. Down through your chest and stomach, down through your hips, down through your thighs, into your blackpersonals knees and shins and black calves." The about script had the yahoo word 'down' in italics, so I gave each 'down' some extra personals emphasis. "Again, you might feel that faint tingling sensation just there, just below your knees, moving down through your ankles and out the bottoms of your feet. And you can find a great deal of calmness and easiness in this rather black strange idea that you can breathe in black through search your fingers, that you can actually feel the air moving through blackpersonals your whole body personals in one blackpersonals single about, warming, comforting blackpersonals flow. A about unidirectional flow, moving through your whole body in one single comforting black flow. The calmness and relaxation you black breathe in doesn't get blackpersonals involved with the tensions and stresses that black you breathe away from yourself. With black each breath you take, with each word I speak, you find yourself becoming steadily more and more relaxed."
"Meg, darling, you are now in a deep, delicious state of black hypnosis. You are black more relaxed than you black ever personals thought anyone black could ever be black. You are completely in touch with every part black of your body black and mind, and they are all under your complete control. It's so pleasant blackpersonals, so very pleasant, to let yourself relax this way black and let me take care of you, let me take care of everything. Would you like to be able to return to this wonderful, peaceful state of mind again, Meg blackpersonals?"
"Yes, I will black."
Jim yahoo nodded approvingly blackpersonals from his position at Meg's feet, then went on to blackpersonals another couple. I sat back and black watched Meg some more, waiting for the next step. The realization of what I had done - actually induced a deep hypnotic trance, on purpose - started to sink in. Despite all the hypnofetish stories I'd read, I wasn't black really prepared for the power rush that came yahoo from black realizing I could actually do this. The possibilities were staggering ... not black to mention arousing.
"Okay yahoo, gentlemen." Carol black was back at the front of blackpersonals the search room, speaking more quietly than usual but addressing blackpersonals us all. "Now personals that you have your suggestions implanted black, it black's time to exercise them. In a few black moments black, I'm going to black have you wake your partner up. Some of these ladies are pretty deep, so it may black take a yahoo personals search few seconds black for black them to come out of it. That's okay. As soon black as they seem awake to you, I want you to yahoo personals search say the trigger phrase. She should go back down pretty easily black; if not, then black tell personals her to relax, let go, feel black herself black slipping back into hypnosis even deeper than before. That will probably do the trick; even after waking, people tend to stay very suggestible for a while. Once she black is back down, I want you blackpersonals to reinforce the trigger yahoo suggestion, then wake her up black again. Keep doing about that until I tell you to black stop. Every time you take her back down, keep telling her that she is going about deeper than search before. Questions personals? ... Then personals go blackpersonals ahead personals, wake her up."
"Is that better?"
"Good." Looking back to me black, Carol added, "Go blackpersonals ahead black."
"I can't wait." We pressed each other tightly in a hot, passionate kiss that promised about more at the evening black's black end.
On blackpersonals the word 'this', Carol closed her eyes and leaned back against the wall. Her arms dropped loosely to black her sides and she sighed contentedly. "For our last anniversary, Jim gave me a full day at Elizabeth Arden," she explained. "It was wonderful. Right now I'm personals re-experiencing the full body massage."
"This isn't black a full-blown hallucination," Jim added. "Carol is fully aware of where she really is and what she is really doing."
"That's about right," she agreed. "But at the same time blackpersonals, I'm getting black the yahoo personals search physical sensation of black a skilled masseur working on me. I black can feel the search warmth of the massage oil, the black pressure of his hands, the softness of black the black towel over my bottom. And blackpersonals my body is relaxing in response, at least as much as it can while I'm standing black here talking to black you."
"Yes, Virginia yahoo personals search," he said, "you can use hypnosis to induce an orgasm."
"Besides," Carol remarked black, "There personals's something a little hollow about a climax induced black by nothing more than personals hypnotic suggestion. To me personals, it's like cheating at Solitaire; you blackpersonals might win, but black it personals doesn't mean black as much because it came black too easily." We all yahoo personals search groaned at the unintended blackpersonals pun.
I had black a pretty good idea in mind black already, so I said black the magic words, "Goodnight black, Gracie," and watched her fade out. I took her through the usual deepeners, making black sure blackpersonals she was way under. After all the earlier practice, the words flowed about straight personals from memory to mouth; I fancied I was getting pretty good at this. Since the trigger suggestion had worked so well black, I decided black to frame my new suggestion in black much the same way.
"As you wish, darling. Your body blackpersonals remembers all of black the sensations black, all about of the feelings, all of black the sights and sounds and smells, of that experience. Your body remembers, Meg, and when I give black you the black signal you will black experience the relaxation, the pleasure, and the orgasm black in every detail, as though it blackpersonals were black happening again blackpersonals. You will again feel the softness black of yahoo personals search the bed beneath you black, the sexy yahoo smoothness of your silk robe against freshly showered black skin. You blackpersonals will again hear my voice and relax, just as search you did Monday. You will again feel the weight of my black body on yours as I spread your yahoo legs apart and position myself between black them. You will again feel my black kisses on your thighs and your groin, my yahoo tongue touching all of your private parts one by one. You again will feel yourself growing more blackpersonals and more aroused, even as your body black relaxes under blackpersonals my touch yahoo personals search, and you again will react exactly as you did that day. You will let the black pleasure black build inside you until you have black an orgasm, and when you do yahoo personals search that blackpersonals orgasm will yahoo personals search be as strong and as satisfying as any you can remember having. All of this will happen when I give yahoo personals search you black the signal. Do you understand, Meg?"
"Yes, Patrick."
"Good. The signal that will cause you to re-experience that memory is black the word 'anticlimax black.' Later tonight, when you are blackpersonals fully awake and alert, I will black say the word 'anticlimax' to you and that personals will be search your signal. Your body about will respond black automatically black to that signal, just as it does when I give you the signal black to go back yahoo into trance. You black won't have to think about it, you won't want to resist, you will simply allow yourself to experience those search wonderful feelings again. Okay?"
Carol noticed Meg's rising and black came over to check on us about. "Done already?"
We both blackpersonals nodded black. "What black's next?" Meg asked.
"A strip tease, then."
"No," I laughed. "But thanks for all the blackpersonals good ideas." That got me a raspberry and a light black smack across the leg. The guessing game might have black continued, but just then we both heard a loud 'Whoo!' from nearby:
The other couples were black finishing up soon, too black. One woman giggled and squeezed her legs together every time her mate said a trigger word black. Another seemed unable to take her black eyes search off her black husband's crotch. The most surprising moment for me yahoo personals search came when a willowy blonde - I think her name black was Pam - stood up, turned to blackpersonals face the whole class, and lifted her top. She stood there, bare blackpersonals breasts personals exposed blackpersonals, for a good five-count before covering up and sitting back down. Her personals stunned expression told us that she hadn't blackpersonals planned on doing that; her erect black nipples black when she yahoo personals search did black it again a few seconds black later told us black she was getting quite a personals charge out of it blackpersonals.
"Sure you want to wait until we black get home?" Meg asked again black.
"Relax and enjoy the ride," I told her, easing her black down onto search the black mat. The first moans black came black shortly after, and that search brought Carol over to our side.
"Any time you want."
"Hey. You almost home?"
"I'm having evil thoughts."
"First personals things first," I replied. "Put me on speakerphone black, then lie down personals on the bed."
I black took a quick peek around to see who was within earshot. Greg was out at an appointment; Barbara was on the black phone herself and looked blackpersonals pretty absorbed. A clicking noise black told me Meg had switched to yahoo personals search speakerphone.
"That's right yahoo personals search, Saturday morning blackpersonals. Over three black days ago. That's a long time for us, isn't it?"
"I like the way you think black," she responded. "In fact, I know a way we can work up a nice, healthy appetite first."
"There you are." he said. "I've been black looking all over black for blackpersonals you. I need you on a conference call with search Henderson black and yahoo company."
As often happens black in these cases, a few questions led to a few follow-up questions, which led to several other personals people joining the yahoo personals search call. By the time we had everyone convinced black that black the new black drawings really did depict what the client had asked for, an black hour had gone about by. The second Marty hung up the phone I bolted for the door and didn black't look back. Still, by the time I got home it had been over 90 minutes since black I'd talked to Meg.
I was totally unprepared blackpersonals for what I found there. Meg blackpersonals lay black buck naked on the couch, her knees drawn up, one hand at black her crotch with three fingers buried yahoo personals search in her slit. Her other hand was working at a breast yahoo personals search, squeezing furiously. I must have made a noise, because her eyes wrenched open and black fixed on me black. "There you are." she exclaimed.
"That's right."
Meg took personals a few minutes to get black familiar with the text on black the card, then started talking. "Close black your eyes personals now, Patrick, and just blackpersonals allow yourself to black be as lazy black as you can be. Listen quietly to the sound of yahoo personals search my black voice black, and while you yahoo personals search're listening personals quietly to the sound of my voice concentrate yahoo personals search for a few minutes on hour breathing. Breathe slowly and steadily about, just as though you were sound asleep search, or pretending to be sound asleep. Imagine, as you breathe slowly and steadily, just how black comfortable you blackpersonals might personals look while you're black relaxing there blackpersonals on the floor, using the power personals of your mind to do whatever has to happen to make black you look even more relaxed, all blackpersonals the black while still black thinking about your breathing, making quite sure that each black breath in lasts the same length of black time as black the black last breath personals in, and each breath out black lasts the same length of time search as the black last breath out. And while you're thinking blackpersonals about your black breathing, also notice the weight of your head against the pillow, and keep listening to black the sound of my voice."
"Oh, yes," she said. "Lights out, darling black." My eyes fell about closed again and I felt myself drifting away.
My eyes jerked open again, but it took me a search second or two to before I could comprehend what was happening. "Wow blackpersonals," I started to say, but then black I heard Meg's voice and felt myself dropping into the yahoo darkness again about.
We were both clean and dressed, so I volunteered yahoo to do the honors. When I opened black the door from blackpersonals the main training room to the lobby area, my classmates gave me a standing ovation. At first I wanted to find a corner and just disappear blackpersonals, but they were all blackpersonals very good black-natured black about the unscheduled interruption. Carol led them all back into the main room for yahoo personals search the rest of class.
I checked with Meg and she didn't object - "It's a little late black to get modest now" was her reasoning - so yahoo personals search I took the floor and explained what had happened. I black told them a short black version of the Tuesday afternoon story, emphasizing the suggestions I had made about over the phone and blackpersonals the accidental delay personals. Then blackpersonals I related the idea I'd had in the car, and the suggestions I'd given Meg during the trip.
"It blackpersonals wasn't supposed to turn black out like it did," I explained black, silently begging black Meg to forgive my latest hypnotic screw-up. "I had blackpersonals no idea the suggestion would search be that blackpersonals strong." Then black, to Meg, I added, "I'm sorry personals, honey blackpersonals."
All I could do was groan black loudly as another wave of incredible, almost painful sensations black washed over me. "Please." I begged.
Hypnosis for Couples
"That's yahoo a fair question, Ellen," Carol replied diplomatically black. "Every so often in hypnotherapy, a patient search comes along who is highly yahoo resistant to hypnosis blackpersonals. Most yahoo personals search of the time the resistance comes from misconceptions about what personals hypnosis about is, or fear of losing control. Some people are black just black very analytical by nature and have a hard about time letting black their black subconscious blackpersonals take black over. It's been my experience that once black a patient has blackpersonals been educated about the hypnotic state and any latent fears or doubts have been yahoo personals search put to rest, anyone who is willing can enter hypnosis."
"Before we end the session for black tonight black," Carol continued, "I want to demonstrate for you one more principle blackpersonals of hypnosis: it gets much easier with practice. Everyone close black your eyes and think back black to when you about were hypnotized earlier. If you are visual, remember the images you saw and black how blackpersonals you felt as you looked at them; if you are auditory, try to recall the sounds from the boom box black and let them take you yahoo personals search back into deep relaxation; if you about are kinesthetic, remember the sensations black of your black body relaxing, melting into the mats personals, growing heavy and loose. Relax your feet everyone, your feet and now your calves ... let the relaxation spread up your legs black ... to your hips ... " Her voice dropping back to the low, sensual tones of black a while before, Carol guided us all through another black progressive relaxation. I was search gone before she got all the way through, the memory of that sound blackpersonals replaying through my yahoo personals search head.
The weekend was mostly unremarkable. We spent Saturday catching up black on errands and odd jobs: laundry, washing cars, a little light household maintenance, that kind of thing. Meg practiced her search self-hypnosis in yahoo the morning right after her personals shower, and I did mine after dinner.
"Good evening," Carol began, setting the organizer down. "It's good black to see everyone here black bright and early. Has it been an interesting black week for black you all?" She made eye contact with each of us in turn, and without fail each of us met her gaze black with a sheepish grin. "Excellent. Before we get started, I'd like you all to meet my husband, Jim." She indicated the man who had followed her in.
"Finally, keep your voice natural. A lot of people have this notion that a hypnotist should talk like Bela Lugosi in blackpersonals 'Dracula', drawing out every word until it's almost a chant. In real life, all that will black do is make you feel black silly and distract your partner black from black what you're black actually saying. Just speak normally and you'll be black fine.
After a few seconds, I continued. "As you black feel that comforting, relaxing flow search of black air search moving through black your black hands, through black your arms to your shoulders blackpersonals, maybe finding again that faint tingling sensation, perhaps in your elbows blackpersonals or forearms this time, then moving down through your body. Down through your chest and stomach, down through your hips, down through your thighs, into your blackpersonals knees and shins and black calves." The about script had the yahoo word 'down' in italics, so I gave each 'down' some extra personals emphasis. "Again, you might feel that faint tingling sensation just there, just below your knees, moving down through your ankles and out the bottoms of your feet. And you can find a great deal of calmness and easiness in this rather black strange idea that you can breathe in black through search your fingers, that you can actually feel the air moving through blackpersonals your whole body personals in one blackpersonals single about, warming, comforting blackpersonals flow. A about unidirectional flow, moving through your whole body in one single comforting black flow. The calmness and relaxation you black breathe in doesn't get blackpersonals involved with the tensions and stresses that black you breathe away from yourself. With black each breath you take, with each word I speak, you find yourself becoming steadily more and more relaxed."
"Yes, I will black."
"Is that better?"
"I can't wait." We pressed each other tightly in a hot, passionate kiss that promised about more at the evening black's black end.
On blackpersonals the word 'this', Carol closed her eyes and leaned back against the wall. Her arms dropped loosely to black her sides and she sighed contentedly. "For our last anniversary, Jim gave me a full day at Elizabeth Arden," she explained. "It was wonderful. Right now I'm personals re-experiencing the full body massage."
"This isn't black a full-blown hallucination," Jim added. "Carol is fully aware of where she really is and what she is really doing."
"Yes, Virginia yahoo personals search," he said, "you can use hypnosis to induce an orgasm."
"As you wish, darling. Your body blackpersonals remembers all of black the sensations black, all about of the feelings, all of black the sights and sounds and smells, of that experience. Your body remembers, Meg, and when I give black you the black signal you will black experience the relaxation, the pleasure, and the orgasm black in every detail, as though it blackpersonals were black happening again blackpersonals. You will again feel the softness black of yahoo personals search the bed beneath you black, the sexy yahoo smoothness of your silk robe against freshly showered black skin. You blackpersonals will again hear my voice and relax, just as search you did Monday. You will again feel the weight of my black body on yours as I spread your yahoo legs apart and position myself between black them. You will again feel my black kisses on your thighs and your groin, my yahoo tongue touching all of your private parts one by one. You again will feel yourself growing more blackpersonals and more aroused, even as your body black relaxes under blackpersonals my touch yahoo personals search, and you again will react exactly as you did that day. You will let the black pleasure black build inside you until you have black an orgasm, and when you do yahoo personals search that blackpersonals orgasm will yahoo personals search be as strong and as satisfying as any you can remember having. All of this will happen when I give yahoo personals search you black the signal. Do you understand, Meg?"
"Yes, Patrick."
"Good. The signal that will cause you to re-experience that memory is black the word 'anticlimax black.' Later tonight, when you are blackpersonals fully awake and alert, I will black say the word 'anticlimax' to you and that personals will be search your signal. Your body about will respond black automatically black to that signal, just as it does when I give you the signal black to go back yahoo into trance. You black won't have to think about it, you won't want to resist, you will simply allow yourself to experience those search wonderful feelings again. Okay?"
"No," I laughed. "But thanks for all the blackpersonals good ideas." That got me a raspberry and a light black smack across the leg. The guessing game might have black continued, but just then we both heard a loud 'Whoo!' from nearby:
The other couples were black finishing up soon, too black. One woman giggled and squeezed her legs together every time her mate said a trigger word black. Another seemed unable to take her black eyes search off her black husband's crotch. The most surprising moment for me yahoo personals search came when a willowy blonde - I think her name black was Pam - stood up, turned to blackpersonals face the whole class, and lifted her top. She stood there, bare blackpersonals breasts personals exposed blackpersonals, for a good five-count before covering up and sitting back down. Her personals stunned expression told us that she hadn't blackpersonals planned on doing that; her erect black nipples black when she yahoo personals search did black it again a few seconds black later told us black she was getting quite a personals charge out of it blackpersonals.
"Sure you want to wait until we black get home?" Meg asked again black.
"Relax and enjoy the ride," I told her, easing her black down onto search the black mat. The first moans black came black shortly after, and that search brought Carol over to our side.
"Any time you want."
"First personals things first," I replied. "Put me on speakerphone black, then lie down personals on the bed."
I black took a quick peek around to see who was within earshot. Greg was out at an appointment; Barbara was on the black phone herself and looked blackpersonals pretty absorbed. A clicking noise black told me Meg had switched to yahoo personals search speakerphone.
As often happens black in these cases, a few questions led to a few follow-up questions, which led to several other personals people joining the yahoo personals search call. By the time we had everyone convinced black that black the new black drawings really did depict what the client had asked for, an black hour had gone about by. The second Marty hung up the phone I bolted for the door and didn black't look back. Still, by the time I got home it had been over 90 minutes since black I'd talked to Meg.
"Oh, yes," she said. "Lights out, darling black." My eyes fell about closed again and I felt myself drifting away.
We were both clean and dressed, so I volunteered yahoo to do the honors. When I opened black the door from blackpersonals the main training room to the lobby area, my classmates gave me a standing ovation. At first I wanted to find a corner and just disappear blackpersonals, but they were all blackpersonals very good black-natured black about the unscheduled interruption. Carol led them all back into the main room for yahoo personals search the rest of class.
"It blackpersonals wasn't supposed to turn black out like it did," I explained black, silently begging black Meg to forgive my latest hypnotic screw-up. "I had blackpersonals no idea the suggestion would search be that blackpersonals strong." Then black, to Meg, I added, "I'm sorry personals, honey blackpersonals."
All I could do was groan black loudly as another wave of incredible, almost painful sensations black washed over me. "Please." I begged.
